*Well, I'm sure that some boys are facing the same situation as I was at that time. Honestly, it is very boring to accompany someone to shop, especially when he or she goes to every shops and spends hours in the very shop. However, it won't feel the same if we were the one that shop and that is a little bit selfish, don't you say so?*
There, I have seen the major play of human insecurity - on my mom.
Mom: "Ok kah ni? Ni macam tidak begitu sesuai, tahankah benda ni?"
Salesgirl: "Tahan aunty."
Mom: "Ya? Macam tidak tahan ni."
Salesgirl: "Tidaklah aunty. Lagipun ini stok terakhir dah aunty."
Mom: "Ya? Oh, bolehlah, aunty mau ini."
< Here was the time that I gave a look to that salesgirl and smiled, both cynically and 'cutely'... believe or not, she said something that made me laughed and I even shown her my sarcastic look>
Salesgirl: "Saiz ini yang terakhir aunty."
<Ah hah! She should say which aspect that makes it to be considered the last stock and not after my mom has made a decision that she would not change at the moment>
*Up until today, I seldom see my mom wears that shoes and she is still wearing her old shoes*
Back to the real point. In our life, the needs of human have just been a play thing for others to gain profit. In the case of my mother *sorry mom*, the fear of losing something is being stirred with sugar and some fruit juices (words) in a cup for someone (boss) to drink. There is a principle that can be observed within that case, the principle of scarcity. People fear to loss something that will not be retrieved anymore.
"That is the last shoes...", after hearing that, you may argue within yourself whether to buy it or not.
"Yes, I should buy it. After all, it is the last one. If I don't get it now, there is no way I will get it in the future. But the size isn't right, the surface is rough, but why I should care about that. It's the last and only one."
This sort of conversation with your conscious may occur and finally, you fell into the trap.
The big parenthesis is- insecurity. Human is a vulnerable being. Today, because of the major loose of insecurity in the world, humans have started to become things that the word 'human' cannot be labelled to them anymore. AND THE BIG VILLAIN IS, the people and the thing that play the insecurity of human and use it as a bridge to gain profit for themselves. Honestly, THIS IS THE WORLD WHERE WE LIVE IN. SO, WELCOME TO #toooootttt#.
There are many insecurity-affected events that happened in our society. Here is
1) Why people dump babies?
- Maybe they fear that they will be found out, fear rejection, stigmatised by people, fear of the future
Attention pleassseeeeee.... I'm not giving any sweeping statement. People tend to change and constantly changing as the effect of motions... so... that's all. Nothing much actually.
*.life is a race, win it or lose it.*